Are you living your “best life” (or failing at it)?

It’s that time of year again… everyone’s in the thick of the fall hustle and bustle and we’re hurtling towards the holidays.  The nonstop pace of life can be overwhelming at times.  Some days all you can do is let out a long sigh at the end of the day as you collapse in exhaustion into bed.

But take a moment—just a brief one—to pause and reflect. Is it possible you are caught up in trying to be a superhero? Nowadays there seems to be an unspoken expectation to excel in every area of life—not just at work, but at parenting, in relationships, and even in our hobbies. I have seen articles and TikToks recently expressing nostalgia for the simple days when parents fed their kids quick, no-frills meals. Sure, some of it was basic (and maybe a little processed), but it kept everyone fed and gave parents some much-needed breathing room. Now, with the constant stream of people “living their best lives” and “locking in” on social media, the pressure to go above and beyond has grown to an almost unbearable level. As a result, the exhaustion and burnout are palpable.

So, what if we made a radical shift? What if we let go of the pressure to be extraordinary all the time? What happened to being a “good enough” parent, one who takes time for themselves?  Or imagine the relief of saying “no” to an invitation, risking a bit of FOMO, but finally feeling rested and recharged. Or, dare I suggest, opting for a $25k wedding filled with close friends and family instead of a $250k extravaganza that drains your energy (and finances) for years to come. And how about trusting that your best—yes, your genuine, human best—is good enough to earn you that raise or promotion, even on days when you’re not bringing your absolute “A-game”?

Embracing a life that’s “good enough” is not about settling; it’s about reclaiming your time, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding that sometimes, *good* really can be extraordinary. After all, perfection is unattainable, and life is sweeter when we are savoring life one moment at a time.

The constant drive to achieve the impossible is wearing us out. At the end of the day, would you rather have the perfect Instagram moment or the deep, lasting sense of peace that comes from embracing your beautifully “good enough” self?

Remember you are totally worthy and lovable just as you are, even when you’re not living your “best” life!